Outside of Relationship and In Love
When men or women commit to a relationship and one or the other steps out of the boundaries of the relationship, problems creep in and chaos leaves a trail of hurt.
Do you love your partner? What type of love do you share with your partner? Love comes in forms that mislead, or else guide couples through the path that stands firm regardless of the weathers in the path.
Relationships in the past were broken when one partner realized the mate was not want he/she needed. Thus, this is not true love, or else the partner is confused and lack of communication has drifted the two apart.
Relationships in the past were broken when one partner failed to consider the other mate and committed an act such as adultery. Thus, true love possibly existed on one partners half, but on the other side it is evident true love was not there. The partner may love the mate, but the proof that trust is reachable in the relationship is gone.
Relationships in the past failed when the partners split to follow their dreams. Thus, an example of this type of relationship is necessary, since love is underdetermined.
A couple set out on a journey while searching for love. The two meet along the path of life and joined in relationship, until one day the mate tells the other partner that her dreams require separation. The two agree to meet on occasions, but for the man it is not enough, since he engages in materials that lead to harmful behaviors. The man engages in the reading of pornographic materials, thus we can see that devotion, loyalty, trust, faithfulness and other elements of love do not exist, since history has proven time again that this type of behaviors lead to harm, pain and suffering.
Can the man change? Yes. Does he love the mate? Possibly, but he has not accumulated the mechanisms that define true love. Therefore, would I take a chance on such a man, probably not, but it can happen that he will change along his journey in life.
The woman is of youth, thus starting her life at this point. She feels sad that she must leave the man, but lets him know that she is there, only a distance apart. Again, the man lacks the elements that define true love, since his behaviors will lead him to unfaithful. Again, history has proven this logic, and to back it, we can consider the source.
Thus, dreams split relationships, but if the man had, the tools that define true love the woman may have changed her direction in life. When a person feels confident about their relationship, they will alter their dreams to meet the expectations of commitment.
For example, one of my dreams is to live on a mountaintop in a log cabin and away from the populace. However, if I meet my true love in life and he has a job, thus, I will redirect my dreams to uphold love, commitment and relationship. On the other hand, if the man shows signs of harmful intentions, and lustful desire I am going for my dreams and he can take a hike.
Some people start up relationships out of desire. Once the relationship progresses and one tires of the other, they often drift worlds apart. These types of relationships are hurtful and selfish and only bring down the outlook of love and relationship. When a person has desire in focus while starting a relationship, it is almost guaranteed there will be other relationships outside of the relationship, and the other person will hurt since they are in love alone.
A trail of broken hearts follows behind these types of relationships. Thus, knowing who you are is the start that determines if you will find true love and relationship. If you are in contact with your emotions, personality, beliefs, standards, and so forth, thus you can touch the fine lines of love and relationship while remaining in love and in the relationship.